Life is full of punches, kicks in the gut, and full on throw down knock-out, fat guy sitting on top of you moments. It’s hard! Lucky for us we are not standing on this earth alone. We have thousands of people around us who were put exactly where they are in order to help us.
Everyone’s path through this life has different twists and turns, however, we are all on the same road. We are all just trying to stay standing through the day and be the best us, we can be. Why would we stick our foot out and throw another obstacle in someone’s path? You knocking someone else down or making them feel bad about themselves isn’t going to lift you any higher or make you feel any better. We need to lift each other up.
Compliment and Give Encouragement: We don’t care if you are good at taking compliments or not, we ALL love them! Everyone loves to be thought about, appreciated and noticed. So when you see someone with bomb eyebrows- compliment them! Chances are she worked hard on them that morning and paid money for those beauties. Give genuine compliments. If you don’t like someone’s shirt, don’t tell them you like it. It’s not sincere and people can read that. But there is something genuinely good in everyone and they deserve to be told! Remind people that they are awesome and be encouraging. Also, it’s okay to take compliments. If someone said you did a great job, you worked hard, so smile and say THANK YOU!
Offer Help: Don’t offer the classic, “hey let me know if you need anything.” Offer genuine and specific help. Recognize peoples wants, efforts and needs, and then offer specific help to help them get there. A lot of the time when we help others reach their goals, we find the answer to reach our goal in the process. We talk to people on the phone from all over the world about blogging. There are a million bloggers out there, but there is always room for one more! We want to help and that help is extended to anyone. We came up with the BB Blogger Retreat with the sole purpose being, to help people do what we do! If you reach out to us we will be there for you! Here is our offer so take it!
It’s Okay to Ask for Help: You are capable! You are sooo capable! We are not doubting your capability. You have all the skills necessary to do whatever you want. Unless you are a new born baby, you can stand on your own two feet. Although you are completely able, it is okay to ask for help! You are not required to do everything on your own and there is a world of people to help you. Don’t be ashamed of asking for help. For some reason, we’ve created a society where it’s looked down upon and seen as weak if we ask for help. News flash…society is wrong!! Asking for help proves that you are humble, teachable, and truly passionate about what you are doing because you’ll do anything to make it happen. Lift and be lifted.
Who decided life was to be a competition? We don’t know where this started, but if you needed a reminder- “There is room for everyone at the top.”-Kaylie Mcgee. No one is too cool, too successful, too smart, or too pretty for ANYONE. Let us que you in on a secret- There is an unlimited amount of success in the world! So why can’t we share it? There is an unlimited amount of people on this earth, meaning, there is an unlimited amount of clients, companies, followers, and brands to work with SO STOP WORRYING ABOUT! Let’s root for each other! Let’s Help each other’s dreams become realities! Let’s create our own success and help other’s to do the same. This is not a competition, so don’t make it one! “Every one of our paths is different, but we walk them together.” -Reyna I. Aburto. We want to walk right beside you! If you need help, another point of view, want to bounce off ideas, we are here for you and we hope you would do the same for us. Let’s make the lives we were meant to live and cheer each other on.
Bri & Britt