I feel like the world has gotten totally okay with the idea of putting yourself down, to the point that whenever a compliment comes our way we almost feel awkward to accept it! Have you actually ever taken a moment to consider that the things people say are not just empty words? You are all those things! You are stunning, you are kind, you are smart, beautiful, you got great hair and a nice butt so say thank you! It is perfectly okay to love yourself, but I speak from personal experience when I say it’s not always easy to.
My confidence varies from Kanye to Billie Eilish when she says; “I don’t want to be you anymore.” Some days my makeup isn’t right, my outfit doesn’t fit like I want it to, someone said this or that, and just like that my confidence is shot! There’s even days that I will literally refuse to take picture because I’m just not feeling my best! We all have days where our confidence wavers a little bit, but as we keep in mind ways to build ourselves back up- hopefully those days can just be small moments instead.
Who has made us believe that by getting our nails done, having eyelash extensions, or wearing hair extensions we are “fake” and conceited? I would disagree! I think life is hard enough and no one (again, with the exception of Kanye) wakes up every day loving every inch of themselves from their head to toes. We deserve to feel good about ourselves and if that means having a few items to see our beautiful selves, then so be it! Obviously, the ultimate goal for each of us is to love every inch of the natural, naked versions of ourselves. But that is a PROCESS! There are steps and resources available to help us in this process. That’s where BB Hair Extensions by Bri and Britt came from- solely with you and confidence in mind. Yeah hair won’t change the big problems, but you know what? If you have a little added confidence to that hair flip that helps you to stand a little taller on a crappy day, then it served its purpose! During this self love process, use them, and the spray tans, the cute nails and the new dress! I say use them all!
I would be a big fat liar if I said I was completely confident and comfortable in my own skin! I am not and my guess is very few people are! However, let me tell you what. If I were at the doctor rating my confidence on a scale of 1-10, compared to a year and a half ago, I would be a 200. My confidence could not have been lower a couple years back. I absolutely “didn’t want to be you anymore.” As I have used tools and discovered who I am to love myself, my confidence has changed my life! It has allowed me to open doors that I didn’t know I could open!
Confidence creates opportunities in business, relationships, life, creates self-love, better communication, and overall happiness! “There are two important days in someone’s life, the day they are born and the day they find out why.”-Elaine Cannon. You are special and you were made for great things! Keep that in mind When your hair is extra flat!
Let’s all hop on the self-love train and remember how amazing we are and if you don’t feel like you can convince yourself call us! We are more than happy to remind you!
Bri & Britt
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